Sunray’s birthday was earlier this week. Slightly to my surprise, he has reached seventy. His diabetologist is also probably slightly surprised, given that he had warned Sunray in June:
If you want to see Christmas this year, stop drinking now.
However, Sunray, because of his psychological/chemical dependency on alcohol, kept on drinking and drinking, often being heavily intoxicated at 2pm or 3pm most days, a textbook example of a man with late-stage alcoholism. After receiving in early January what the police call “appropriate words of advice,” from his younger son, Sunray has cut back on his drinking (but not stopped), and reflected on his actions.
I rang Sunray on the morning of his birthday, and he was subdued. Five cards. None from his daughter, none from his younger son. A card from his elder brother, with whom he is estranged, wanting to “kiss and make up.” Sunray didn’t. I agree. High hedges make good neighbours.
Quite a pitiable situation. But what you give out, gets repaid – with interest.
Have a celebratory day, won’t you!